Now that you have a better understanding of each word, let me place them into the life of a teenager. Teenagers communicate (the imparting or interchange of thoughts, opinions, or information by speech, writing, or signs) through various means. Some find it easier to use a cellular telephone, by either talking, text messaging or sending pictures. Others use a cell phone to communicate through facebook (smart phones). Some other methods of communication are through the use of computers, which is what many of these cellular telephones have become. Teenagers can not live without a cell phone. If you disagree, simply take one away from a teen and see the reaction! If you are able to unlock the ties that connect them to their phones, you probably will need the unlock code or the battery. Teens are very private with what is on their phones. Many teens find cell phones hold their inter-most secrets. They hide behind their phones, feel powerful, secure and out of harms-way. These same teens would never share in-person with what they find it too easy to say on an electronic device.
By now you should begin to understand the purpose of this article. There exists a very "fine-line" between Words & Wounds. Teens say things that are quick to hurt the heart. What once was said to another face-to-face is now being communicated to hundreds electronically spreading the hurt and hate. How many times have you received a text or e-mail message and taken it the wrong way? With these types of messages you can't determine the voice inflection or body-language as to how it was communicated, thus misinterpreting. Should a teen take a message the wrong way, they maybe quick to react negatively. Have you heard the names Jesse Logan, Phoebe Prince, Megan Meier,Celina Okwuone and countless others whose lives have been silenced through bullying (a blustering, quarrelsome, overbearing person who habitually badgers and intimidates smaller or weaker people). Many feel bullying is only done when it is face-to-face, but in today's culture of electronic devices bullying takes on another form. This form of bullying is done where hundreds of others contribute to the messages of hate by sending them onto others electronically. This form is called cyberbullying.
We need to teach our children that silence, when others are being hurt, is not acceptable. If they don’t allow the cyberbullies to use them to embarrass or torment others, cyberbullying will quickly stop. It’s a tall task, but a noble goal. And in the end, our children will be safer online and offline. We will have helped create a generation of good cybercitizens, controlling the technology instead of being controlled by it.” -STOP Cyberbullying